Whenever there are two or more people involved in anything, inevitably someone ends up in charge, in control. There is no such thing as equality ever. It is instead workable and best for there to be reciprocity and equity in a relationship.

In an inner circle relationship, if there are no relationship rules, if there is no designated leader, the default mechanism is, “Whoever loves least is in control.” When men are not in charge, not in control, they become/are emasculated predators, parasites and slugs, and women in control become/are burned out and used up – lose-lose.